Getting Married Tomorrow! Any advice from those who've been married a while?

[WD-40]

June 4 will be 30 years for me .. its not going to be easy .. but it can be fun.
The biggest piece of advice I can offer is to understand that you can't and shouldn't try to change your spouse.. accept them as they are, and you will grow together as a whole.
The best of times are ahead of you, have a great life.

[MadMax]

Originally Posted by WD-40

.. its not going to be easy .. but it can be fun.

In a nutshell...this.

[Billiam]

I've been with my wife for 26+ years. Keep the sex-life alive. Dr. Phil is a jackwagon but he says one thing to couples that I actually agree with.

"When the sex-life is good it accounts for 10% of the relationship. When the sex-life is bad is accounts for 90% of the relationship".

It absolutely true. Keep the "spark" going.....be intimate, be sexy, be creative. My wife is sexier now in her 40's than she was in her 20's and I know alot of that is my perception of her because we have such a great marriage. Oh...and the sex is way better than it was 20 years ago. Women get better and better with age!

My dad used to say "a 20 year old will put a smile on your face, but a 40 year old will make your whole body hurt".