Help! MES power lock install question

[mr_thunder16]

I am currently half finished with the install of the MES Central locks with Avital 3100 Alarm and ran into an issue on my 2007 sedan 4-door. I have all of the actuators in place and wired and I also have the alarm in and wired (parking lights, siren and dome light on when disarming not wired yet but it is monitoring the dome light if it lights the alarm will go off.). the problem i have is that when i use the manual push/pull or the key fob to unlock the doors they unlock for 1 second and return to the locked position and stay there. then i lock it with the remote and nothing happens because it would lock them but they are already locked. i grabbed the test light and found that i am getting a ground on one of the blue/red that moves the actuator out (unlocked) then immediately another ground pulse through the other color causing the actuator to return back in and lock it. i am not with the car this second, it is at my fathers where the tools are or i would have a better description of the colors that are providing the ground pulses that cause the locking. basically i can't keep the actuator in the unlocked position, it returns to locked immediately. all of the wiring diagrams i found are for the valet 712t system and not applicable to this system with the alarm. any info is greatly appreciated! thanks in advance!

-do i have a bad brain in my system?
-do i have one of the actuators wired backwards?
-should the kit only produce 1 ground pulse per push of the button or with the manual lock/unlock?
-or does the kit provide + all of the time when the doors are unlocked and - when locked?