Help with flip key and remote headlights.

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Originally Posted by CTScott

To turn on the headlights you just need to ground the light blue wire, next to the pink wire, on the headlight stalk connector.

I just need to ground it to the body?
I can't find a kit anywhere that has the headlight feature. My friend has a volvo that does what I'm looking for. When you press the yellow button on the key fob, the lights come on for about a minute. I didn't think it'd be too hard to do, but I guess it is. I'd make my own transmitter and receiver, but I have no background in electronics. Any suggestions?